Everytime I Turn Around...

I was enjoying my drive home, thinking about all the things I wanted to do. The last person I wanted to see at my casa was him...Spock! We've been apart for over 4 years and I remember those last few years of our marriage when I could count on one hand how many times he was at home.I believe he was with her. But now, it seems every time I turn around (sing Jeffrey Osborne), the man is "hangin' and chillin' at my crib! Sure, it's always under the umbrella, that he's helping Missy with something, but does it take hours to do it?

Believe me, I have had cordial conversations in the past about not spending time here. It's simply inappropriate! He smiles and gives some excuse why it occurred "this time". Hey, buddy...this isn't your home!"

Friends have told me, Spock simply is comfortable here. How can that be; we didn't share this home together. Ah you see, part of it is reminscient of the past or that he just hasn't let go of "us" completely; and he never will! He may not have liked the marriage, but he enjoyed the benefits and enjoys the fruit of my new labor.

I am amused and frustrated by the whole affair considering he can do this but can not tell me, thusfar, that he's marrying this summer. Comfort and joy mixed with suspicious behavior. It really is all too much! So the question is, will the "extended visits" continue or will the "new found religion" called the envious new wife will put a stop to it? I suspect she doesn't know now and she won't in the future. Maybe I'll hang out at his house now!